There’s no one right way to have sex. But porn has probably shown you a lot of wrong ways. Porn producers are not interested in teaching you healthy or fulfilling sex practices. They only want your attention. Because of mass sexual tolerance and escalation in the porn audience, the front pages of these sites are filled with extreme fantasies about incest, rape, racial stereotypes, sadism, masochism, etc. But even the more vanilla content is not accurate to real-life sex.
Over time living pornfree these images do fade in your mind—especially as you overwrite them with new experiences of love, intimacy, and sex. One of the many joys of choosing to live pornfree is discovering the unique sexual and intimate connection you can create with a real partner, unhindered by porn’s influence.